Friday, September 11, 2009

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What happens when 2 different personalities tug on your mind?

What is the smartest thing to do?
Is it to please both sides, have split personalities, and live a life with an ever changing personality?

Of course not. It is the quite the opposite.

A sticky situation happens; you'll be forced to cut one side off and take the other.
And, for some unfortunate reason, it becomes a question of who you'd rather please. Because sooner or later, you'll have to quit compromising and take a stance between the two minds. You cannot be forever ambiguous and accept contradicting ideas.

Life is harsh.
It just sticks us in these messy situations. So as usual, when I encounter a messy situation, I try to find a purpose.
Although it's subjective and up to interpretation, I believe this type of dilemma to be the opportunity to establish an identity, and it's up to yourself to make it a good or bad one. There's plenty of examples all around us everywhere, at school for example, in how people chose sides and established their own identity - the whole phenomenom of the strengthening and breaking of friendships, the latter known more commonly as "drama."

Many of us just choose the side that is most fun.
Is fun really the deciding factor of our personality?

It could be.

Decisions, decisions.

So now I'm stuck.
...Who am I supposed to be?



1 comments:

melodee said...

philosophical and fresh!
it's true that we have to take the initiative and be who we really want to be; without being swept away by the spur of the moment.

 
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